She didnt need to think, plan. Could change mind mid-date. Open ended situation: being in now, short satisfaction realm. But direct "hey we met, I like you, date, drinks, back to place and fuck", she'll say no. Covert, vague courtship works better than direct overt. Women excel at covert, vague; men suck. Men switch to vagueness to boost chances. Preferred: state "hey, you and me, now". Girls thrive in emotional uncertainty.